When I tell my non-blogworld friends that I’m heading off to another state or country to stay with someone I’ve never met in person, I occasionally get confuddled looks in response.
(One time, I got astonished and fearful looks, but that was because I was flying off to stay in a hotel room in Florida with an older man whom I’d met for merely two minutes a month earlier. Hey Mum, remember when I sent you that fun email?)
What the non-believers often don’t realise is that blogfriends aren’t just blogfriends. They’re very often soulfriends. When you’ve been emailing, texting, and calling each other for months or years, discussing interests, passions, heart-aches, crises, successes, recipes, dreams, laughter and more, it’s easy to forget that you haven’t ever actually hugged or shared a meal together.
Then when you do meet, hug, and share a meal together, you almost don’t think to be amazed at how easy and wonderful the friendship is, because it feels so comfortable and longstanding. You simply know how glad you are to have each other in all aspects of your lives.
The past whirlwind 48 hours visiting my darling friend Robyn of Girl On Raw in Brisbane have been delicious, inspiring, calming, rejuvenating and, most importantly, fun. Whereas many of the blogger meet-ups I’ve had in the past have centred (at least ostensibly) on food, my trip to visit Robyn was really all about the two of us spending time together: talking, eating, gettin’ our hair did, gushing over her baby boy Manus, shopping, talking, and more talking.
I can’t possibly hope to squeeze the 48 hours into a single post, so I’ll start at the very beginning (it’s a very good place to start).
As soon as I arrived in sunny Brisbane on Thursday morning (wearing a skirt in order to prove to my legs that the sun still exists), Robyn appeared at the airport to pick me up and spirit us away to lunch at Wagamama.
Over the next two hours, we shared Wagamama’s zingy-spicy garlic and chilli-tossed edamame and its sweet potato kusabi, “hand-cut sweet potato chips served with a basil and wasabi mayonnaise”. I do like a dish that comes with straight-up chilli to nibble on. Ten points to the edamame!
As we talked non-stop about everything from friendships, relationships, and career changes to travel, raw food, blogging, and everything in between, Rob and I also shared the otsunaaji avocado salad, “stir-fried caramelised red onions, sweet potato, red chillies, eggplant, mint and red capsicum in a coriander, aniseed, ginger, lime and soy dressing, served on a bed of baby spinach and chinese cabbage, topped with avocado and fried shallots salad”. Funnily enough, the description was more of a mouthful than the salad itself.
We also ordered a serving each of miso soup and pickles, the latter of which also go by the name of OwnsMySoul.
After briefly considering a dessert stop elsewhere, we both decided that what our hearts really yearned for was seeing Manus, who is Possibly The Most Adorable and Smiley Baby I’ve Ever Had The Privilege of Cuddling.
After picking Manus up from Rob’s in-law’s house, we arrived at her parent’s place, which Rob’s husband has affectionally dubbed “The Beach House”.
Luckily for us, we arrived at The Beach House just in time for Margarita O’Clock.
It’s the best kind of O’Clock.
Even if my approach to drinking margaritas seems to be “look as if you’re suspicious about the contents of your glass”.
// curtains close on Brisbane Escape: Part One.


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“It’s a very good place to start” — hahahhaha. Love you.
I’m about to catch up on your blog, bloggy love. I can only dream that one day I will get to meet you somewhere and hug and share food.
oooh looks divine thus far!!!
blogfriends are soulfriends. yes, i completely agree! i can’t believe u and Girl on Raw are friends. i totally read her blog! i forgot you are from the same country!
Luckily, despite your lack of belief, it’s true!
Yay for you. Sounds like you my dearest bestie have had the best weekend EVA!!! Its fantastic and lovely and you look relaxed darlin girl. Which pleases me greatly.
I’m amazed your drinking that margarita though…. Please tell me that this O’Clock involved at least one random and very well thought out pickup line? Cant wait to hear more about your trip. Hugs to you my soulfriend! Xxx
Thank you darling (and for your wonderful email today, too)! Shhh, don’t tell anyone, but there was a good reason for the suspicious look in my last photo: there was Grand Marnier in the cocktail! :S Alas, no pick-up lines, as the only men in the house were Rob’s husband, father, and baby!
I’m so glad you were able to have this weekend away
It sounds like your friendship transferred beautifully from online to real world, and I agree that Manus is very cute (presuming Manus is featured in that first photo!).
Thanks for the Wagamama review too…there is one 15 minutes (walking!) from my house, but I’ve never been. That’s a tad embarrassing actually. I might have to rectify it.
Is your name Sherlock, not Kari?
That is, indeed, Manus! And if Rob gives me permission, you’ll be seeing lots more of him in future posts
Funnily enough, there’s been a Wagamama in Canberra for years, but I’ve never gone! Apparently the noodle soups are great, albeit filling!
I like your style girl!!
Aw, thanks Penny!
I LOVE SWEET POTATOESSSSS. ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY’RE CHIPSSSS. AND I LOVE MAYONNAISEEEE. ESPECIALLY WHEN IT’S ON CHIPSSSSS. AND I LOVE ADORABLE BABIES. ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY’RE COVERED IN MAYONNAISEEEEEEE.
…….and i love knowing that i will NEVER get another babysitting job ever again, thanks to this comment.
If this comment was slathered in mayo I would down it pronto.
I’m pretty sure it’s one of the silliest and bestest things I’ve ever seen chuggalugging across the vast, ofttimes lonely, information superhighway.
Aw, thanks Emma. Need a babysitter?!
Eeep!! If only!
Shall I just leave you two to it, then?
P.S. Lizzi, you should come over for AirFryer Sweet Potato Chips sometime soon then! BYO mayo
P.P.S Or we could just go to Costco.
Yay for wonderful friends (old or new)!
Hear hear!
I agree.. but we are Angle Babe friends.. full of happy rake sways
Angle Babe friends are definitely as awesome as soulfriends
xoxo
This is so sweet! I’ve actually only met a couple of blog peeps by accident, but have never met any of my close bloggin’ friends. Your post has made me want to! x
So, when does your flight arrive in Canberra?
Ooh, margarita o’clock is a good time. Far more sophisticated than beer o’clock.
But… but… I really like beer o’clock!
Oh, beer o’clock is heaps of fun, too. But if the choice was offered between beer o’clock and margarita o’clock, sophisticated-Theresa would choose margaritas. End-of-a-work-day-Theresa would choose beer o’clock, though.
I like both Theresas
ALL Theresas, even!
P.S. You could’ve had this margarita of mine. Unfortunately it had Grand Marnier in it. Blasted oranges!
It *is* a very good place to start! I entirely share your view on real-life meetups, and having done it myself (including the traveling-to-stay-with-a-stranger thing) I totally recommend it.
Manus is adorable! And your Wagamama meal has reminded me that (hoorah!) I have edamame in the freezer and shall eat them tonight!
Reverse-hurrah
I don’t have edamame in the freezer! Darn things are so hard to source here.
One day, darling, you and me. One day.
So it’s 11 degrees and raining in Melbourne and then I read about how it’s nice and sunny up in Queensland. Yeah, thanks!
Good thing I’m flying up next weekend – hopefully it’s still as beautiful and sunny when I land on the ‘Coast on Saturday morning
I haven’t been to Wagamama but there are a couple of Wagamama restaurants in Melbourne – should give it a go sometime!
Believe me, I know. I arrived back in Canberra on Saturday and it was raining. BOO. But hurrah for your next visit!
I do think that Wagamama needs to work on its dessert range, though…
What a great post. I don’t think I’ve seen Robyn’s baby boy before, which means it’s been far too long since I’ve been over to her site. I totally agree Hannah, drinking o’clock can be the best o’clock around!
Hmmm, I’m now starting to think that Robyn may not have posted photos of Manus on her site yet! I outed him! (Don’t worry, I asked permission first
)
P.S. Thank you!
Hehe don’t worry I have posted some of him, but not alot
Oh so glad to hear that you arrived in Brisbane safe and sound! And it looks like you’re having a wonderful time indeed!
Absolutely!
…. Now, how do I turn this comment into wrangling an invitation to Canada for myself?
Oh wait, I just did.
It’s terrific you were able to enjoy your 48 hours, without letting worry or whatnot creep in too deeply (I hope). I haven’t made any pickles yet this year but now I’m a little worried that if I do they will OwnMySoul and there will be no turning back.
I can’t say there’s anyone I’ve never met who I enjoy calling. I have a hard enough time phoning good friends… I thought my secretary job had gotten rid of my phone jitters; guess that’s why I always hid in the back room when working that job. Insight!
Luckily, phone calls and texts with Mum helped prevent too much worrybuildup.
Oooh, I’ve never made my own pickles! Really should but, as you say, I fear that that way lies picklelifedoom.
Teehee! I actually get really nervous making actual phone calls these days too, but I think that more due to the technological/generational shift towards texting. Lady, you can call me anyday without fear!
Awesome! I hope you kissed that cute baby for all of us who are looking at that picture and wishing we could.
Many, many times. SO CUDDLY.
Anything with the words “Wagamama’s zingy-spicy garlic and chilli-tossed” before it is welcome on my menu!
I really must try to recreate it, if I can find edamame here!
Oh myyy, I wish I could get my grubby farmers’ hands on that edamame dish! And WAGAMAMA is such a fun word to say.
You look so devious holding that margarita! I adore the coat!
Isn’t it just? I always say Wagamama like The Muppets’ (I think?) “Mahna Mahna” song
I completely agree with you, blog friends become friends near and dear to our heart! I hope you have a lovely trip, enjoy lots of good food;-) Hugs, Terra
Thanks Terra!
Oh my gosh, all that food looks amazing!
I remember a friend introducing people at her wedding. About halfway through the introduction she paused as she had a realisation. Everyone knew each other, but only through screen names. Screen name introductions were made and everyone fell about hugging. It was great.
Mmmm, Wagamama, I think I have an entertainment voucher to there, must dig that out.
Oh, what a hilarious and brilliant story for the blog/social media age! Love it!
Love blogfriend meetups
You look to have had an awesome time!
Thank you! We certainly did
I’ve been surviving on margaritas for the last few days. I haven’t been this happy (and happy meaning buzzed) since I drank a whole bottle of red wine by myself over a weekend in Hong Kong.
Wait – that was like 2 weeks ago. Where DOES the time fly??
Robyn looks like a lot of fun and her baby is just precious (and this is not just due to the alcohol-induced pangs I am getting in my own uterus). Blog-friends rule
I’m in awe of your ability to drink a whole bottle and/or many margaritas. I get tipsy on half a glass of white wine!
Bahahaha! “Alcohol-induced pangs in my uterus” [yes, I paraphrased
] Oh, you make me giggle.
Hi there! The food looks lovely, but as you said, the meeting up with someone who know and love is the absolute trump card. Glad to see you had such a nice time!
Thank you Yasmeen! Yep, as good as food can be, true friendship is what really takes the cake
I love meeting bloggers – there is a certain understanding that doesn’t exist in the real world – and they know great places to meet (Beyond Q coming up in a post soon)!
I now feeling comforted at you looking cold in Melbourne now that I see how you rug up even in Brisvegas!
Glad you had fun with Robyn and her very cute baby! Plus am interested to see what you had a wagamama – quite different from my (distant) memory of Wagamama in London (I assume it is part of the same chain)
Can’t wait for your Canberra post, m’dear!
Guess what, though? I was actually wearing no jacket and a short skirt without leggings during the day in Brisbane! It was amazing. Until the night, which was cold. But really, it’s still winter, so I’m allowed, right?
Surely it would have to be the same Wagamama? For advice, though, you should ask my parents, as they’ve been regular Wagamama-before-a-movie people for a few years now!
Ooh loved this post Hannah!!! And thank you for your little visit! It was so great for Manus to meet the lovely lady who gave him such a special gift and we look forward to our next meet up xxxx
Hurrah! I’m so glad, Rob! I hope you like the next Brisbane posts too, though I have no idea how many I’ll eke out of the one trip
I was so honoured to be welcomed into your family (both little and extended) for the two days and, as you say, can’t wait to see you again
xoxo
I need not even say it again, but ::sigh::! So envious. I’m so glad you two had such an amazing time! Can’t wait to hear more.
You know you were there, truly, deep down, always. xoxo
I love Wagamama (we have it here in Boston too). In fact, I kid you not, I almost went there for dinner tonight but decided to save it for another day. And I agree with you, I’ve become very good friends with some blog friends – some of whom I already feel so at home with before I even met them in person!
Ooh, one day we should do a timed Wagamama visit across the hemispheres and pretend we’re meeting in person
Pickles for all!
So, did you enjoy Wagamama? I don’t recollect ours here having chilli flavoured edamame.
Robyn thought they were new to the menu? I did like it, but was sad that there wasn’t any seaweed salad.
I love the fact that you’ve traveled so extensively and have friendships all over! You are more than welcome to stay with me if you’re ever in California again
Aw, thanks Kate! But be careful what you say; I just might hold you to that!
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