I’ve never been shy about expressing my love for the people I care about. This might have stemmed from a chapter of Sideways Stories from Westside School, in which a boy discovers that when you tell someone that you love them, you yourself fill to the brim with even more love that you felt before.
Yet while I’m personally happy to tell members of my family, outright, that I love them, perhaps when we’re in the middle of watching SeaChange or after they’ve made me feel like I’m not a failure at life, I recognise that some people are more comfortable showing rather than stating their emotions.
Here are three ways in which my dad has made me feel loved:
1. When I was three, my family and I went to a local river for a picnic. My dad was carefully watching me splash around in the shallows, but turned around for a brief minute or so to attend to my brother (who was probably doing something like sticking food up his nose*). When dad turned back to me, I was lying, face-down, in the water.
(Apparently, I’d decided it was too much of a bother to figure out how to get this “oxygen” people speak of.)
Dad dashed into the water and pulled me out, thus avoiding a rather big calamity.
If that’s not love, what is?
2. When I was eight, I wanted a doll’s house. Would my dad stoop to simply buying me a pre-made one? No, he would not. My dad ordered the design for a complex doll’s house from the magical world of the internet (it was rather magical in those days), and set to building the house from scratch.
Would my dad stoop to simply creating a bare-bones, run-of-the-mill doll’s house for his daughter? No, he would not. That man built a multiple-storied gorgeous palace with staircases between floors and a front porch complete with columns, and then he spent weeks – weeks, I tell you – gluing tiny individual overlapping shingles onto the roof, then lacquering them for a shiny finish. And then he spent more weeks – weeks, I tell you - installing wiring for lighting into the doll’s house. My plastic people were never going to have to fear the dark.
Sure, the doll’s house never moved out of the construction stage, but you know what? Columns. And hundreds of roof shingles. And electric lighting.
If that’s not love, what is?
3. When I was twenty-two and a mere month away from completing my 28,000-word Honours thesis, I somehow installed a virus in my laptop and thought I’d lost most of my work. Despite the fact that dad had constantly reminded me to back-up my computer over the course of the year, he barely even said “I told you so” before spending four days straight fixing the entire computer and salvaging my work.
If that’s not love, what is?
With memories like that in mind, I decided to reciprocate my dad’s affection and faith in me by baking him a bunch of cookies for Fathers Day. Cookies made with one of his favourite chocolate/candy bars, no less.
So, Dad? Thank you for everything. And Happy Fathers Day, again.
Chocolate Cherry Ripe Cookies for A Computer-Whiz, Carpenter-ish, Creek-Fording Father.
Makes 25-30 depending on size. Adapted from The Australian Women’s Weekly Biscuits and Slices Mini Cookbook.
- 1 1/3 cup (200g) dark chocolate melts
- 60g butter
- 1/4 cup (60ml) vegetable oil
- 1/3 cup (75g) caster sugar
- 2 eggs, beaten lightly
- 1 cup (150g) self-raising flour
- 1 cup (150g) plain flour
- 3 x 85g (King-Size) Cherry Ripe bars, chopped
- 3/4 cup (110g) dark chocolate melts, extra
- 1 tablespoon vegetable oil, extra
- Preheat oven to 180°C (350°F). Grease several baking trays.
- Combine dark chocolate melts, butter, oil and sugar in a medium saucepan, and stir over low heat until everything is melted and combined. Cool to room temperature.
- Stir in beaten eggs, flours, and two-thirds of the chopped Cherry Ripe bars.
- Roll heaped tablespoons of mixture into balls, placing about 3cm apart on the baking trays. Bake for about 15 minutes until browned lightly, then cool cookies on wire racks.
- Spread tops of cookies with the combined extra melted chocolate melts and oil, and sprinkle with the remaining chopped Cherry Ripe bars. Present to your father with a big grin, a hug, and an outright or implicit “I Love You”. (Awww… Hallmark moment!)
* Oh, the stories I could tell.







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Daaaaamn. This entry makes me want to be your father almost as much as it makes me want to be his daughter.
… that was a very confusing sentence.
Point is: I love dads. And Cherry Ripes. And cookies. And not drowning (my dad saved me from that many a time. What was wrong with us!?). And omg-dolls-house-so-much-jealous. Do you still have it!??! I want to see!
You do realise how creepy it is for you to say “I love dads”, right?
Luckily for you, I know how truly innocent you are despite your potty-mouthed stance on many aspects of life… The doll’s house better still be around somewhere! If I ever have kids, dad’s going to be ordered straight back to building/installing wiring
Aw – what a gorgeous treat to dedicate to your daddy
It’s funny fathers have their ways of showing that they love us, I have a 85% completed bathroom that has reminded me of my dad’s love for the last three years…
Do you think he’s put off finishing it precisely *so* you have that obvious reminder of his love staring at you? I reckon that’s be a pretty good ploy on his behalf
A doll’s house with lighting? No way! Can I have your dad too? And that’s about the cutest almost drowning story ever.
Not Quite Nigella seems to have stolen my reply before I got to making it. I wish 1) I wasn’t on a low GI diet and 2) I liked cherry ripes. Although my devious mind just leaped straight to Maltesers…..
Honestly, I’m not a fan of Cherry Ripes myself… which just shows that I’m a good daughter, right?
I like the idea of Malteasers too!
I’m far too selfish to share him
And oh, gosh, “cutest almost drowning story” made me laugh!
aww that’s a great entry
Thanks Fiona! Worth a coke this afternoon?
cherry ripes are my mum’s favourites – and I think the love of them is genetic as I seem to have inherited it – which is strange as I don’t like glace cherries but the coconut and chocolate with a hint of fruit is so good – so I must try these cookies
Hmm, it can’t be totally genetic, because I haven’t inherited quite the same love from my dad! A bit too sweet for my tastes, and I’m not super keen on coconut. These cookies were, however, pretty dang tasty
What a lovely post, you’re getting me al misty-eyed! Those cookies look incredible too – nom nom nom
Thanks! I got a bit misty-eyed writing it
Awww. My favorite of the Sideways Stories from Wayside School was the one about the ice cream. I know you know the one.
Oh my god, Camille?! Really? What do you say, dear and Sideways Stories? I just… I’m overwhelmed.
I honestly feel wonderful imagining how our childhoods had so many cross-overs, and that we’ve come to be such good friends despite living so far away. I’m not much of a fate-believe, but it kinda feels like it
P.S. I certainly do remember that one! I also think that book was where I first heard of Tootsie Pops.
oh what a sweet post!
Thank you!
oh my – what perfect cookies to celebrate a great dad!!!!
Thanks Lisa!
OH MY JEEZ! I LOVED Sideways Stories! My little sister and I always used to play Mack & Nancy! She still holds it against me that I always made her be Nancy…
What wonderful stories about your dad. He clearly loves you to pieces.
Lovely Cherry Mash cookies, too
SQUEE!! You too? As I said to Camille, this feels like fate. I’ve honestly *never* known anyone besides my brother and me who has read those books!! I am absolutely going to rummage through my parents’ bookshelves and reread this as soon as I’ve finished the other book Mum leant me
And gosh, Amber, you *know* these have nothing on raw blondies!
That makes me want to go back and reread it!
Actually, for years I’ve been meaning to go to my parents’ house and pick up my collection of Roald Dahl books and reread all of those…were you a Roald Dahl fan too?
We should create a Nostalgic Reading Group of Our Favourite Childhood Novels and reread them together! Absolutely Roald Dahl… gosh, strongest urge to pull out the BFG!
What fun that would be! I LOVED the BFG, and the Witches, and I always identified a little with Matilda.
You should let me know when you have the time, as I’m guessing you’ll be a *leetle* busy in the coming weeks… but we should ABSOLUTELY reread the books in tandem and, say, come up with a recipe inspired by each book (I’ve been thinking of doing that for awhile, actually!)
Miss Honey would be easy to riff on, but I”m not sure what I’d make to represent the Trunchbull…
It’s true, I will be rather busy these next couple months…maybe-just-maybe after the new year?
Love the recipe idea! ‘Cept in that case, we may as well skip over Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, don’t you think?
Though Charlie and the Great Glass Elevator is a whole other story…Vermicious Knid Green Monster Smoothie, anyone?
I knew you’d know The Great Glass Elevator
Yes, I think we shoudl absolutely revisit this idea in the new year!
Oh strap my face to Tony Abbott and smoosh me against a bicycle – they’re utterly gorgeous!
*laughs and laughs and laughs* I really can’t add anything of worth to that comment…
I adore this story about your dad and I adore chocolate cherry mash! Honestly, it is just sickly sweet but for some reason, it really hits the spot for me. Great post Hannah.
Thanks Tammy
I wonder how comparable Cherry Ripes and Cherry Mash really are? Cherry Ripes are cherries and coconut in dark chocolate, but I bet they taste pretty similar regardless of any difference
Those cookies are so pretty-ful!
Quite possibly the only time in my life I’ve bothered to decorate a cookie
I’m more of a “rustic” baker myself…
Awwhhh, what a Dad huh, feeling a bit neglected right now, my dolls house …., well…. we won’t go there – but I’m seriously impressed with yours.
Great chokky bikkies too BTW, bet they tasted a treat.
Ah, I’m sure your Dad has skills in other areas with which to show his love
But my dad is rather impressive, I must say!
I think you’ll have to make your dad finish it off for his grand-daughter one of these days!!
1. I would, if only you’d stick to your side of the bargain and figure out an arranged-marriage for me.
2. And when you do… I’m totally stealing it from her [imaginary grand-daughter] and playing with it myself.
holy shit i want that in my mouth right now
Guess you’ll just have to bake them first
1: Cherry Ripe bars are bloody good and I love the idea of them being showcased in a cookie (especially with the pretty red insides showing)
2: That doll’s house sounds epic. Thanks for sharing the toasty glow of your love for your family
I think that’s pretty much the only context where you can talk about “pretty red insides” without sounding like Dexter
And thank you for not just calling me corny and leaving!
I think your Dad had an ulterior motive all along – all that drowning rescuing and dollhouse gluing was in the hope that one day you would grow up to make these cookies. I’m so annoyed that he thought of it before me. Why isn’t there a Faraway Friend Day? I’m really good at rescue sidestroke!
Clearly, your Dad also had hopes for you to get interested in the range of Construction Barbies, complete with diamonte hard hats, and then you and the dolls could finish the house together.
By golly I think you’re right! He’s a wily one, that dad of mine
I promise that if you create a Faraway Friend Day, I’ll make something for you.
And I’m completely fine with a Construction Barbie. But if anyone comes near me with a Construction Bratz, heads will roll.
Enormous, massively oversized heads.
First, for some reason my blog decided that “Enormous, massively oversized heads” was spam. Odd.
Second… Enormous, massively oversized prostitute heads.
What a beautiful tribute to your Dad! I’m sure those cookies went down a treat
Thank you Emma! I think he enjoyed them well enough
Your dad sounds so so sweet and super cool. The dolls house sounds awesome – lighting! And salvaging your work – hero. Always good to save you from drowning too, so hero again! These look delicious
Heidi xo
Thanks Heidi! When you put it all together like that, he does sound kinda heroic
They look sooooooo good!
Thanks!
My brother and I think showing affection towards each other is, like, totally gross and stuff, so I sometimes make him cookies or sandwiches. But recently, I taught him to cook something for himself: Bacon and banana pancakes. Best present I ever gave him.
(Just regular batter, cook some bacon, slice some bananas, and then wait to sprinkle bits of bacon and banana into soft top of the pancakes once they’re ladeled onto the griddle. Easy stuff, but my brother can barely scramble eggs.)
I think that’s getting towards complex! There’s lots of different processes there, and you have to make sure not to burn the bacon, or the pancakes, or leave floury lumps in the batter, so I think you’ve just put your brother on the path to Top Chefdom! (Without the nauseating drama, hopefully…)
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